We run regular Carrying Clinics and Workshops where you can get expert carrying advice, try out and hire from our huge selection of baby carriers! You can also drop in to the Sling Library during our opening times to book your session, return hires or buy carriers and accessories from our little shop!
All Advice Sessions are held in our home-from-home rooms at 194 Beckenham Road, BR3 4RJ – travel and parking details all on our Sling Library Location page
Browse the site to find out more!
A Bit More About Us
The South London Sling Library is all about supporting parents. We believe that every child, parent and family is unique, and that anyone can use a sling or carrier if they want to, as long as they find the one that suits them. We’re here to show you the benefits of the different carrier options, with personal recommendations and tips so that you can find and make the most of the slings that are best for you!
We’ve got a huge collection of slings and carriers that are available to try on and borrow. It costs from just £5 (plus refundable deposit) to hire a sling or carrier for 2 weeks or more so that you can really find out how it will work for you and your family.
Brows this site to find out more about the South London Sling Library, how it works and the carriers and slings we stock. There’s lots more information about babywearing, if you’re interested, and blog updates posted below.
We use our Sling Library blog to post news announcements, carrier reviews, changes to the way the Library works, plus carrier tips and information articles. The most recent blog posts appear on the Library website Home page with the most recent first. Older blog posts can be found by browsing the sections of the ‘News and Reviews’ menu to the right.
Any comments on blog posts are very welcome, as are suggestions for things for me to blog about!
The Sling Library house is undergoing essential building improvement works during autumn/winter 2015. Unfortunately we are very sad to say that we are therefore not able to run the Sling Library as normal during this time.
The Sling Library will be closed for all advice sessions and workshops for October and November 2015. Structural building works are due to be completed by mid-December, but Sling Library services are likely to be limited until January 2016. We may be able to offer out of hours hire, purchase and postal hire of specified carriers during this time.
Please accept our sincere apologies for not being able to help all you lovely parents out there during this time. We will keep our website and Facebook pages updated as works progress and will be in touch with everyone currently hiring a sling or carrier to explain how this will affect them.
Please read below for more details and get in touch if you need to by emailing email@example.com. Please note that there may be delays in responding to messages during this time, but we will get back to everyone as soon as we’re able to.
Thanks for your understanding!
More Details About the SLSL Building Works
What is Happening to the Sling Library?!
As many of you are aware, the Sling Library house is due to undergo significant structural building works this autumn. These will result in big improvements to the spaces available for the Sling Library, and pave the way for us to expand the services we’re able to offer. Hooray!
BUT this will involve some pain before we can experience all the benefits.
The works in the house are extensive and will involve the removal of several structural walls, 2 bathrooms, a kitchen and a huge amount of old dusty plaster. They will then involve the installation of at least 5 structural steels, several concrete lintels, 2 new bathrooms and a kitchen. Not to mention all the plumbing, electrics, plastering, flooring and decorating to be done!
Structural works are due to start on 1st October, and planned to continue for 10 weeks until mid-December.
Eeek! Wish us luck!
How Will this Affect Sling Library Services?
We had hoped that we could minimise disruptions to existing Sling Library services whilst works were ongoing. But we also need to ensure that we are protecting the safety, needs and comfort of everyone using, living and working in the spaces. We’ve had long discussions with everyone using the building, with our building contractors and with our insurers to work out the best way to responsibly manage the building works.
The only way to ensure the safety of everyone whilst large sections of the building are not structurally sound is for us to close the sling library for all services for the duration of the works.
We are really really sorry that we may let a lot of parents down during this time, but it is essential that we prioritise the safety of everyone in the building. It is just not going to be possible to make the Sling Library spaces safe and comfortable whilst so many walls are being removed!
How the SLSL Team will try to help
We will do our best to offer flexible returns and hire terms for everyone who is already hiring a sling or carrier from us. We will also try to accommodate requests for out of hours hires, postal hires and purchases of specified slings and carriers (i.e. if you know what brand and model you’d like to borrow/buy then we’ll do our best to help!)
We have hired a shipping container to home the Sling Library stock for the duration of the works so that we can still maintain some access our slings and carriers. However, to protect our stock, we will need to pack everything away and may not always be able to easily find Sling Library slings, carriers and files.
We will not be running any regular drop-in Open Sessions, pre-booked Workshops or Consultations. We will be unable to offer any out of hours person-to-person advice or demonstrations, though will make times when we can be contacted to answer your questions by phone or Skype. Please check the website calendar and Facebook pages for notices about these.
Other Local Sling and Carrier Services
You may be able to reach other local Sling and Carrier support services to help you during this time. Here are some resources which may help you find something near you!
Thanks so much for your understanding and patience!
We really appreciate your understanding during this time. We will do our best to be contactable by email, but due to these huge disruptions there are likely to be delays in responding to messages.
Please be mindful that Emily’s own home and family is also being completely turned upside-down by these building works, and that all of the sling library team have busy lives and responsibilities outside helping at the Sling Library. We all put a huge amount of our time, energy and resources into trying to offer carrying help to as many parents as possible, but sometimes we just need to prioritise other aspects of our work and home lives.
We all look forward to being back and better than ever in our new and improved Sling Library spaces as soon as possible. Please keep checking our Facebook page for updates!
Being born isn’t an easy process (it’s called ‘labour’ for a reason!), but our bodies have some really clever tricks up their sleeves to help make it all easier. It’s all about the hormones! More accurately, one of the most important players is the hormone Oxytocin. The Oxytocin system is triggered during normal childbirth and breastfeeding, and through skin-to-skin and close physical contact. Oxytocin has a wonderful calming effect on the brain; both parent and child will feel safer and more relaxed, blood pressure and other physiological stress-responses fall. The body and mind of both you and your baby learn to associate these positive feelings with being close to each other; the biological basis of this most fundamental and important relationship[i][ii].
The positive effects of Oxytocin in your body are both wide-reaching (from regulating your baby’s temperature to facilitating a successful breastfeeding relationship and reducing any symptoms of post-natal depression) and long-term (from helping with the formation of healthy relationships to life-long protective health benefits for breastfeeding mothers).
The way to tap into this biological miracle cure is simply to have skin-to-skin contact with your baby for a few hours a day[iii]. Babywearing is an obvious way to help facilitate prolonged skin-to-skin contact during the first months[iv][v]; using a soft wrap or sling is a very popular way to keep your baby close whilst allowing you to be mobile and hands-free to do other things, if you want to!
How your child’s carrying needs change
Many people set out wanting to find ‘the best’ carrier or sling for their family. They may even have found one that suits their immediate needs perfectly, but then things change. A baby’s normal growth trajectory has it doubling in size in the first 6 months, tripling in size in a year[i], all whilst acquiring an enormous list of new physical and cognitive abilities too! So what works ‘best’ now will almost certainly not be ‘best’ at all stages and in all situations.
Here’s a run-down of the main stages of baby development and how this may affect your child’s carrying needs and preferences.
Stages of baby development:
Age range: 0-4 months – the 4th trimester
Physical stages: Spine is soft, C-shaped curve, major organs are adapting to life outside the womb, movements are disorganised
Psychological stages: brain lacks connections and vision is poor – baby can only see about 30cm in front of them
Most newborn babies love experiencing a feeling of safe containment that mimics the experience of being in the womb, and that Oxytocin-inducing skin-to-skin contact is hugely important during this time. Your baby will have minimal strength and control over their body and so will need full support for their head and spine. Position them facing you (chest to chest), with their face visible and head high on the flat part of your chest ‘close enough to kiss’. Upright positioning is often easiest to get feeling safe and supportive. Being held safely upright on your chest helps soothe symptoms of reflux or colic, and is a safer place for daytime naps than lying flat in a room on their own[i].
There are many slings and carriers suitable for use from newborn; some will be optimised for this stage and therefore have a more limited longevity; others may last longer, but require adaptions or inserts in order to be suitable for a newborn, which may be less convenient to use. A soft stretchy wrap or sling may feel most natural as a way to facilitate skin-to skin contact.
Whatever you are using to carry your newborn, take extra care to monitor your baby at all times whilst in the sling, wrap or carrier. The following T.I.C.K.S. safety guidelines are a great checklist which use can use to check for safe, supportive, comfortable positioning in any sling or carrier[ii].
2. Moving forward (and sideways!)
Age range: 3-8 months
Physical stages: baby is developing spinal strength from the top down, learning to support and turn their head, then roll and think about supporting the weight of their own torso
Psychological stages: baby can now see the world! They are engaging with faces, smiling and responding to voices and expressions
Wow! What a busy phase for development this is! We’re going to place more focus here as this stage can be a challenge for everyone involved.
If the first months are for nurturing strong internal organs for independent breathing and digestion, these next months really put your baby’s new internal powerhouse to work. Your baby’s brain is putting out all sorts of connections; the left and right sides of their brain are starting to talk to each other and they can now see for longer distances so there really is a whole new world both inside and out for them to experience and assimilate. Their spinal muscles are strengthening and they’re starting to be able to control and coordinate their movements.
You notice them practicing these new muscle movements; first by constantly turning their head and looking at everything (working muscles needed for secure head control and to calibrate depth perception), then by turning, pushing or twisting as the spine strength develops further down their spine to their shoulders and upper torso (practicing reaching and rolling, and hand-eye coordination).
Many parents notice their baby’s behaviour change dramatically; your baby may well be expressing themselves more loudly and demonstrating frustration; they can sense their own potential, but still don’t quite have the ability to act on it. This is all very commonly expressed by reactions to how they are being carried, and many parents find that this stage feels surprisingly challenging.
Whilst your newborn may well have loved snuggling in their cosy wrap; your 3-6 month old will be letting you know that their needs have changed. It may seem like ‘they don’t like the sling’; they may push against your chest or against the carrier itself; they may twist and crane their neck and they may make bigger stretching movements with their whole body.
Don’t give up on carrying – your baby needs you more than ever! They may well be feeling frustrated, but not necessarily with you or with your sling. Carrying at this stage gives your baby fantastic opportunities to strengthen the muscles developing in their neck, back and core; it’ll give them a great vantage point to start engaging with the world, and it will allow them a vital safe resting place where they can absorb and process all that new information.
At this stage make sure that your baby’s lower legs are free to move when they are in a sling or carrier. Once they are able to stabilise their head against the movements of your body they no longer need support up to the top of their spine; up to the top of their shoulders will be sufficient. Make sure your baby has access to their hands; they’ll find this reassuring and start to coordinate hand-to-mouth movements in preparation for eating solids. You may find that they want an arm or two completely free to move; they may be strong enough to manage this, but be aware of how well your baby can support their upper body. They may still need head support, especially when sleeping, even if while awake they want to feel their face and arms being less contained.
Are Outwards Facing Carrying Positions Safe?
A specific babywearing need that may be expressed by parents or babies around the 3-6 month stage is to be able to carry a baby facing away from their parent. Whilst most babies will express movements described above and be very content facing their parent at this stage, a minority of babies may at times show a preference for outwards facing carry positions. A phase of preferring to face outwards usually coincides with a baby having improved distance vision and awareness of their surroundings but a lack of upper back and neck control needed to engage fully with their environment. This phase usually passes once the baby is able to express themselves more effectively, and/or the next physical milestone (usually rolling or sitting unaided) has been reached.
Some parents and professionals express concern about the safety and/or suitability of outwards facing carrying positions. Experts recommend [ref] that for optimal hip stability, a carrier should support a baby’s thighs with the knees held higher than the hips and only the lower legs hanging down (the ‘M’ position). This is especially important during the first 6 months of development and for children with a family history of hip dysplasia or similar problems. It’s also the naturally most comfortable position that a healthy baby will normally adopt when they are being carried upright in their parent’s arms, and aids optimum positioning of the pelvis and spine.
Outwards facing carrying positions in many carriers will not support a baby’s thighs to the level recommended and will allow their weight to hang down and away from the parent’s centre of gravity. You’ll notice this hanging weight sitting more heavily on your shoulders, with this effect often exaggerated in carriers without additional lumbar supports. Babies best fit against their parents when facing towards the parent’s body, which will also make longer periods of carrying more comfortable.
Long periods in an outwards facing position can be overwhelming or overstimulating for some babies as they cannot can see their parent and turn away from strange situations if they are not comfortable. An inwards facing position on the front, back or hip allows baby to more easily sleep with their head supported.
If you’d really like to try an outwards facing carry position, then be reassured that the limited research currently available suggest that short periods of outwards facing carrying using an appropriate carrier is unlikely to cause your baby actual physical harm (unless there is a genetic predisposition to hip dysplasia). To maximise your comfort when carrying in this position, try it using a carrier that has a separately fastening waist – to give sufficient lumbar support for you – and that supports your baby’s thighs so that their legs are not dangling. Do ensure that your baby is able to fully support their own head comfortably – this varies from baby to baby but is usually by about 3-5 months. Don’t use these positions with heavier babies or for longer periods of carrying and do change to an inwards facing position if baby needs to sleep or seems at all unsettled or uncomfortable.
Psychological stages: increased social awareness, language development, exploring their world
Ok, you’ve all made it past that frustrating 3-6 month stage and you’re out the other side. This is a very fun and exciting stage for you and your baby. They can (finally, hooray!) have a clear and increasingly predictable impact on the physical and social world around them. If they want something, they can move towards it, pick it up, reliably hold on to it and start experimenting with it. They’ll also be sharing their experiences with you; they’ll ask for things by pointing and vocalising, they’ll show you things they’ve found and done, and they’ll be watching for your expressions and responses.
Once your baby can sit – or at least strongly support their torso to the hips – unaided, then they are ready to be carried on your back in a range of suitable wraps and carriers. Back carrying allows your baby to see the world over your shoulder and at your height. It allows for you to support their increasing weight in a different way on your body (though back carrying isn’t always more comfortable, having it as an option can be a nice change). And it can allow you more freedom of movement to get a lot more done. Whilst for some situations and families, back carrying therefore feels like a very natural and practical progression at this stage, it’s not right for everyone. Your baby is still going through a big jump in social awareness and whilst they can point and get your attention when on your back, it’s not as easy for you to see and respond to each other when you can’t be face to face. You may both feel that front or hip carrying feels more appropriate, and that’s ok too. Do what fits the situation you’re in, and what feels safe and comfortable for you both.
You may find that the babywearing solution that worked for the first months no longer feels as suitable or comfortable now. However, your baby isn’t yet walking independently for long periods and so biologically you will still need to lift and carry them! There will be a sling or carrier that will allow you to do this comfortably and safely, though you may need to try a few different options and get some advice to find the right one o suit your family’s needs. It’s also worth knowing that, whilst some people do like the feeling of a well-padded carrier against their shoulders or body; simply adding extra structure or padding to a carrier does not necessarily make it feel more supportive, however heavy your baby. Less structured carriers and wraps mould around you and your baby, offering more custom-fitting and adaptable support which will suit some parents better.
4. Onwards and upwards
Age range: 12 months+
Physical stages: toddling, walking, even more teething
Psychological stages: testing boundaries, emotional, social and language development – there’s a lot going on!
Once your not-so-little one is walking you’ll still find that a sling or carrier can be a parenting essential. They may be able to walk independently, but your child will not have the stamina to go very fast or far, or to get through a whole day without needing a nap. They’ll be going through huge cognitive changes too and will need lots of reassurance to give them the confidence to make the most of their expanding awareness and increasing independence. After a long day walking and learning and socialising sometimes having a big hug is just what you need, and as a parent you’ll find that at this stage your child may want lifting up more than ever!
This is also a stage for testing boundaries and you may notice your child refusing to go in a previously-loved sling or carrier. This is very normal (you may notice the same behaviour with a car seat, buggy, high chair, bath, etc.) – they have new independent walking abilities to practice and fascinating new worlds to explore! Even if your child does have ‘sling strike’ phases around the 15-20 month stage, they will often want to go back to being carried once the novelty of walking has worn off and they start getting tired.
You may not be carrying your child for as much of the day as you were when they were newborn, but they are much heavier now. Luckily there are lots of slings and carriers that will help you to carry your growing toddler in a way that’s comfortable and supportive for you both, including toddler-specific carriers that can offer excellent longevity. One that allows you to easily let your child up and down for periods of walking will also be very practical at this stage.
Start your baby wearing journey
Just hold your baby
From that first rush of Oxytocin as your baby is born, help ease yourselves through the transition into your new life together by getting as much skin-to-skin contact as possible. You can do this simply by holding your baby in your arms or relaxing with them on your chest (you’ll be grateful for the rest!), but you may want to have a sling or carrier ready to use from day 1 to help you to get your hands free.
Do your research
It can be difficult to choose a sling or carrier before your baby arrives; after all you don’t know what their shape, size, abilities or preferences are going to be, and if you’ve got a growing bump then it’s hard to know what might fit your changing body best too. There’s a lot of information to read online, and it can be useful to start to get an idea of the product options available.
However, not everything written online is useful and nothing beats your own personal experience. What you think will look easy and comfortable online may turn out to be the wrong for your body or your needs. The best way to really get your head around the options available and to see what might really suit you is to try things out in person.
Get advice and try things on!
There are lots of ways to get person-to-person help with babywearing and with finding the right product for you. Options include trying products on at Baby Shows, peer-to-peer support at Sling Meets[ii]; more experienced help with trying out different options at Sling Libraries and Hire Services[iii]; and qualified carrying consultants running workshops or private classes[iv].
It’s really worth exploring the support in your area as getting personal advice and hands-on experience saves you wasting time and money on products that turn out to be unsuitable for your family’s changing needs. Plus once you know where to get help, you can always go back to explore different options as your family’s carrying needs grow and change.
[i] Moberg, K. U. (2009), The Oxytocin Factor, London: Pinter & Martin Ltd.
[ii] Moberg, K. U. (2013), The Hormone of Closeness, London: Pinter & Martin Ltd.
[iii] Moberg, K. U. (2013), The Hormone of Closeness, London: Pinter & Martin Ltd.
[iv] Gregson, S. and Blacker, J. (2011), Kangaroo care in pre-term or low birthweight babies in a postnatal ward,British Journal of Midwifery. September 2011; Vol. 19, No. 9, P. 56
[v] World Health Organisation (2003), Kangaroo Mother Care: A Practical Guide, Available from: whqlibdoc.who.int/publications/2003/9241590351.pdf
Another very busy year has seen the South London Sling Library getting busier and busier. We know that waiting times at our Open Sessions can get long and we’ve been listening to your feedback about how we can improve. To pave the way for more regular open hours and (hopefully) reduced waiting times we need to rearrange our spaces and improve facilities at 194 Beckenham Road. We’re planning to do A LOT of building work over the next few months and so at times we may need to pack the whole Sling Library into boxes for safe-keeping.
We will definitely be closed for some weeks over August, and services are likely to be affected in September and October too. Since builders are a law unto themselves, we have no definite timings yet. We’ll let you know as soon as we have more information and will be contactable by email and phone if you need to check our availability. We will keep everyone updated by email, Facebook and Twitter as works progress.
See below for planned changes to Sling Library services:
Closures to Advice and Hire Services August 2015:
The Library will be closed for all drop-in Open Sessions and Workshops August 11th-13th and August 24th-26th. Hires taken on the 27th/28th July and that would normally be due back 11th/12th August will benefit from an additional 1 week’s hire free and will be due back on the 17th/18th/19th August (extended open hours for returns onlyapply this week – see the SLSL Calendar for details).
If you would like to extend your sling or carrier hire: We are happy to pre-approve any sling hire extensions over the summer. You can pay for hire extensions online via our website HERE. For a 2 week extension, refer to your original hire paperwork for the cost, and update this in the checkout process when paying via our website. Any hire extensions falling into a closed week will get an extra week’s hire for free and can be returned when we are next open.
Closures September and October 2015:
It is likely that we will need to close the Sling Library whilst major structural works are undertaken during late September/October; we will keep everyone informed on the website and social media pages once we have more information.
Out of Hours Advice and Shop Services:
The Sling Library will experience delays in phone, email and facebook messaging whilst works are ongoing – this is likely to affect these services during August – October. When the library is closed, we may be able to offer emergency out of hours hires from Emily’s home, and/or advice by Skype but can give no guarantees on availability of this. Please check the calendar on our Open Sessions page before attending any sessions to confirm that they are running before you travel.
Sling and Carrier Shop:
If you would like to buy from our range and know what product you need, then please phone Emily on 07793823539 to arrange a time to collect your purchase.
For more information on Summer and Hot Weather Slinging, see our blog post: Slinging in the Sun!
Longer-than-usual Easter hires will be offered from some March Open Sessions and Workshops at a reduced rate as follows:
Hires taken on the 23rd/24th/25th March: Will be for 4 weeks at 1/2 price (you pay the rate for 2 weeks) and will be due back on the 20th/21st/22nd April.
Hires taken on the 30th/31st March and 1st April: Will be for 4 weeks at 1/2 price (you pay the rate for 2 weeks) and will be due back on the 27th/28th/29th April.
Any extensions over the Sling Library Easter Holidays will be priced depending on the exact dates the hire runs for; please contact us for details. You can now pay hire extension fees online via this page: SLSL Hire Extensions
The Sling Library will be closed for all services between Thursday 2nd April and Monday 14th April – we will not be in the office or planning to reply to emails or phone/text messages during this time. For emergency queries regarding existing hires only, you may call Emily directly using her mobile number on your hire paperwork.
On Tuesday 15th April regular Open Sessions start again, though email/phone support and out of hours services will be subject to increased delays for another week or so as we catch up on everything!
Have a wonderful Easter holiday and see you after the break! 😀 x
The nights are drawing in, it’s definitely got very chilly recently, and we’re all thinking about Christmas! To give us all a well-earned treat (and to allow us to do all those festive holiday things with our own kids), the Sling Library will be closed for 2 weeks over the 2014/15 School Christmas Holidays as follows:
The Library will be closed for all drop-in Open Sessions and Workshops from December 19th 2014 until January 4th 2015. There’s still time to pop into an Open Session during the next 2 weeks of December to hire a sling or carrier for your winter holidays. Plus we’ve got some great December offers and free gifts in our pop up Sling Shop!
Longer-than-usual Winter hires will be offered over this holidays at a reduced rate as follows:
Hires taken on the 8th/9th December: Will be for 4 weeks at 1/2 price (you pay the rate for 2 weeks) and will be due back on the 5th/6th January.
Hires taken on the 15th/16th December: Will be for 4 weeks at 1/2 price (you pay the rate for 2 weeks) and will be due back on the 12th/13th January.
Any extensions over the Sling Library Winter Holidays will be priced depending on exact dates the hire runs for, with similar reductions for extensions over the holiday weeks.
The Sling Library will be closed for all services between 20th-28th December, and the 31st Dec – 1st Jan – we will not plan to reply to emails or phone/text messages during this time. During 29th – 30th Dec, and 2nd – 4th Jan we will be operating a skeleton service, including some email support and emergency out of hours hire appointments only. On Monday 5th January regular Open Sessions start again, though email/phone support and out of hours services will be subject to increased delays until mid-Jan as we settle our kids back at school and catch up on everything!
For more information on Winter and Cold Weather Babywearing, see our blog post: Carrying in the Cold!
And have a wonderful holiday and see you in January! 😀 x
We run regular Expert Carrying Advice and Fitting sessions, which can be pre-booked online.
We also have Hire Collection and Returns times when you can drop-in to collect a pre-arranged hire, return any borrowed items and browse or buy from our Shop
See our Event Calendar for details of all upcoming Open Times.
Browse the website for more info on how to hire slings, wraps and carriers, how we can help with expert advice, and for lots more helpful information about slings and baby carriers!
We can accept payments for Purchases, Hire Fees, Refundable Deposits by: cash, card or Paypal App
Hire fees and deposits vary according to the carrier borrowed and are listed on the Library Catalogue pages.